Last night, during a bandage change, I barely touched Nicky’s feet and he yelled in pain. I wasn’t touching a wound, mind you, I was simply “gently” feeling his skin. His feet nowadays are mostly healed, and they have been healed for sometime, they really look beautiful all in all, so I was a little perturbed. In truth, for the past several months – or years – Nicky won’t let me touch his feet at all. If there is aRead More →

I know I am beating the drum of Epidermolysis Bullosa Awareness every single day, especially on my ebinfoworld.com facebook page, but this cause is very close to my heart and it really needs everyone’s attention. There are so many conditions on this planet, many of them rare, and it’s hard to get the word out often because our voice can drown in the sea of worthy causes. The rarity of some like EB, however, makes it very unlikely that enoughRead More →

I can’t let October go by without posting at least “something” regarding either my experience with Pregnancy Loss or at the very least offer my thoughts on the matter either on how I feel more than 2 decades after my loss or the state of Awareness. Am I and are we moving forward? My answer is YES. The other night I was watching this show called “This is us” and this is the clip that sent me over the edge….:Read More →

August 1997 – Nicky and I on our way to my anniversary dinner…. Nicky looks so spiffy, but despite the smiles, behind the scenes, I was a mess. At this point I was taking Nicky to the Physical Therapist twice a week and she became sort of a confidant; I felt she was one of the few people that might have answers to a question I was constantly asking myself: ‘Is this normal?’ It’s just the nature of having aRead More →

Feel free to save them and share! To save the bigger version of the image, click on the image first to load it, then right click to save image. Believe me when I tell you, never in a million years I could possibly exaggerate Nicky’s condition. I became the parent who hopes against hope despite a horrible diagnosis, the parent who jumps out of bed the moment the child calls you even if you were in deep sleep, the parentRead More →

As EB Awareness week is approaching, I always hear the “numbers” of EB being floated around. One official website states the incidence of EB  is 1 out of every 20,000 births. Another official website states One in about 17,000 live births. Yet another official website states 1 in 50,000. The truth is, most likely nobody knows for “sure”. I am telling you this because I remember quite clearly a gal that was a waitress at an EB event who then went toRead More →

I am a very spiritual person. I grew up catholic and I have attended service at many different churches from many different denominations, mostly to satisfy my curiosity, so I am very well aware of how incredibly sensitive this issue of religion is. Your beliefs are important and they should never be belittled nor should you ever be questioned about them.  It’s because of this that I am just very surprised when people start “bragging” how they prayed, and theirRead More →

March 2001 – I was thinking about this picture just the other day when we were driving back from Stanford and I was so happy to find it. Isn’t Nicky cute? “Casa De Fruta” used to be just a big fruit stand, now it’s a mini-amusement park, complete with a restaurant, rides and tons more, between Gilroy & the San Luis Reservoir. We almost always stop, it’s on our way! Nicky here was wearing his little soft slippers, back whenRead More →