Well, it’s official!! “Courage Under Wraps” is now a reality. This is the photographic documentary that depicts my son Nicky’s life with Epidermolysis Bullosa, aimed at raising EB Awareness. It’s available in print and as an ebook. Part of the proceedings are donated to the EBMRF for a cure. While the book is already available online, there will be a “Book Release Event” on September 20th, 2013 in Los Angeles to which anyone is welcome to come. It will take placeRead More →

There seem to be a little confusion on what books are being made right now about Nicky, so I am here to clear things up a bit. Nicky is, of course, my son. He was diagnosed at birth with Epidermolysis Bullosa, the Recessive Dystrophic form. As devastating as this diagnose was at the time, it’s hard to explain in a few words what it means to raise a child in constant pain, whose condition is considered terminal, a condition whoseRead More →

I just wanted to make a quick post about Nicky’s left hand and show a couple of pictures.             This is Nicky’s left hand. This particular photo shows quite clearly his four fingers and the ‘pinky’ is all, as we say, “webbed in”. The index, middle and ring finger are a bit curled, but they function well and he wants nothing done to them, they’ve been holding pretty much this position since the last surgeryRead More →

OK, so this blog is a lot longer than I intended to… but how do you sum  up the time of your life? This is a trip we’ll never forget. Thanks to everyone that made it possible! As many may imagine, Nicky’s life is full of pain. Medications to alleviate pain, to soothe the skin, to help bowel movements and to relieve itching are only a part of the puzzle. There are the nightly bandage changes, the difficulties of walkingRead More →

I had a great friend yesterday ask me if I could write a blog about how people should handle things when they see a child that is disabled. Different. What do they say to the parent? Anything? Should they avoid the child or engage? What’s the appropriate thing to do? I must say, I had to think about this one. Truth be told, being a special need mom can be isolating, lonely.  No one knows what to say to me.Read More →

A few years ago I was presented with a situation that was hard to digest. As I describe in detail in my book Losing Alex, a group of what I can only describe as ‘evil people’ had targeted me big time. Since my website showed me the referring links (basically how they found me… was it google, yahoo, or a link from another website) I was able to find this horrific bulletin board, a group of truly disgusting individuals fromRead More →

I was deep into reading a wonderful book wrote by a local mother whose daughter had brain cancer and something she said hit me like a ton of bricks. And not in a good way. Without admittedly doing any research on her own, or talking with other parents in similar situations or consulting with any other Doctor, she put her daughter’s life in the hands of just one Doctor. When he turned out to be wrong, the unthinkable happened, andRead More →

Last night I came across an old blog of mine circa 2001, and the words I spoke on that blog are as true today as they were back then. I am not sure if I am sad that my attitude has not changed, or happy to know I was right in feeling the way I did so long ago. I wrote this a little over a month after Nicky had a throat dilatation that, for a couple of days, theRead More →