When working at Target several years ago as a cashier, a couple came in to buy a large pack of diapers and as they were checking out they told me, in a sarcastic and bothered kind of way, how they could not believe they were still buying diapers for their 7 year old daughter. I asked about their daughter and they told me she had some issues with some sort of disability, and I told them not to feel tooRead More →

I was changing Nicky’s gauze last night, once again being amazed of how much certain types of gauze helps or protects Nicky’s skin and I wished the myself of today could not only advise the me of 16 years ago, but actually hand over the supplies to do it. If I could, Nicky would for certain be better off today. No doubt about it. I can’t even begin to describe the horrible shape I was in when Nicky was born.Read More →

I just noticed that I haven’t posted any ‘wound pics’ of Nicky in a while, so I picked about 4 that I took in the past 2 months. For those that are unfamiliar with my son’s struggles, he was diagnosed at birth with EB-short for Epidermolysis Bullosa. When he was a mere month old he was further diagnosed via skin biopsy with a rather severe form of this condition called ‘Recessive Dystrophic’ (RDEB), one of the rarest, more severe andRead More →

Just the other day I ran across an article on Redbook magazine asking “Would your friends be there for you in a Health Crisis” that made me stop cold. As I read it, I was nodding. Oh yes, I’ve been there. You see, as I explained, or at least tried to explain in my book ‘Losing Alex‘, I was completely unprepared for the heartfelt amount of support-and the enormous lack of it after the unimaginable happened and I had to bury my firstRead More →

The more I live, the more I realize I am not living a normal life. Far from it. Clearly I have no idea what “normal” even is anymore. What is normal? Is anyone’s life “normal” anyway? It does seem as if many are living an “ideal life”, so to me, that spells normal, everyone around them or in their family is healthy and happy, they have good jobs and perhaps they should be happy but many, unfortunately, aren’t. These unfortunateRead More →

This past week something happened that caught me by surprise. A new Pope was voted in by the World’s Cardinals and their decision brought me to tears. You see… I am not a hugely religious person. As a matter of fact, the last time I entered a church, was this gorgeous 300 year old cathedral called St. Martino in Sottomarina di Chioggia near Venice (Italy) last summer. Inside it was breathtaking. So much so that Connor, my 9 year old,Read More →

Imagine… for a moment, being so thrilled about finally having that baby you longed for so long. This is 21 months after the unimaginable happened, when you had to bury your first baby, being told, in a little room in a hospital, that your second newborn would most likely not reach his first birthday. Imagine being told that there is no cure, no treatment, all you have to do is instantly be transformed into a nurse, insurance not paying forRead More →

On my blog at the EB Info World website, I posted the 8 things you can do to Help Bereaved Parents, which is something I wrote for the back of the book I wrote about my son called Losing Alex, available now for the Kindle and paperback. On that note, I had written, also for the EB Info World website, a blog titled ‘Helpful Words for new EB Parents“, but I now wanted to take things a bit further. IRead More →