There comes a point in your life, usually with age, in my case at least, where you need to reclaim yourself and not put too much weight on what other people think or what our society deems acceptable. I now 1000% know who I am and I came up with these rules for to reclaim myself. Can you relate? 1. PEOPLE’S OPINIONS. I’ve heard enough negative opinions about myself since I was a child that if I let that dictate my daily mood I would be in a pool of tears every single day. No, thanks. I learned that negative opinions have more to do from the person giving them than the person getting them anyway. I prefer to surround myself with positive people. People that care. 2. ABOUT MY EX. I know I should hate my ex, but I don’t. Sorry. We’re still friends because it benefits my son.Read More →

Be Healthy, Stay Healthy You have one body and it has to last you as long as possible, so treat it well. Vegetables, fruits? Yes! Your body loves those. Get your move on as well. Don’t have time to exercise? Just park as far away as possible, take the stairs, truly, if you don’t use it, you lose it. Move them legs. Don’t Be a Bitter Ex Bitterness feels bad. It’s aging. It’s negative. It’s yucky. Most especially if you have kids with that ex… just look for the positive, always. Ignore the negatives. You loved this person at one time, so remember that feeling. Never bad mouth the mother or father of your children to them. Never use your children against their other parent. NEVER! Grow up! Be Kind To Yourself Take time out for you. Do something you like. Stop talking negatively toward yourself. So what you have aRead More →