{"id":1418,"date":"2015-08-20T17:50:24","date_gmt":"2015-08-20T17:50:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.silviaskingdom.com\/?p=1418"},"modified":"2016-03-07T18:04:33","modified_gmt":"2016-03-07T18:04:33","slug":"frankly-i-am-tired-of-it-all","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.silviaskingdom.com\/?p=1418","title":{"rendered":"Frankly I am Tired of it All&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.silviaskingdom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/ecd48d197baadf93ca1b227454025acc.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-1419\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.silviaskingdom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/ecd48d197baadf93ca1b227454025acc.jpg\" alt=\"ecd48d197baadf93ca1b227454025acc\" width=\"300\" height=\"900\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.silviaskingdom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/ecd48d197baadf93ca1b227454025acc.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blog.silviaskingdom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/ecd48d197baadf93ca1b227454025acc-100x300.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>I grew up in a country where Health Care is a right, not a privilege.<\/p>\n<p>I grew up in a country where my grandma, who suffered from breast cancer for 13 years, was hospitalized numerous times, endured a double mastectomy, chemo, radiation and more, but was not driven to bankruptcy from it, as all her out of pocket expenses were kept to an absolute minimum.<\/p>\n<p>I grew up in a country where my other grandma&#8217;s Doctor went to visit her instead of the other way around because she\u00a0was unable to leave the house as she could not climb down 4 flights of stairs.<\/p>\n<p>I grew up in a country where my sisters received paid maternity leave.<\/p>\n<p>I grew up in a country where my parent&#8217;s medications are completely paid for, as they are for all seniors.<\/p>\n<p>I grew up in a country where my mom&#8217;s life was saved by their Medical system and there was no co-pay for her 3-month hospital stay.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, I am not there anymore. I am not in Italy. I am in the United States, where National Health Care is deemed awful, while CEO&#8217;s extreme salaries are perfectly acceptable while people go bankrupt.<\/p>\n<p>I went bankrupt twice trying to take care of my son&#8217;s NECESSITIES. Insurance companies constantly denied bandages for my son, and did so for the first 12 years of his life (read more about my immense struggles in my book <a href=\"http:\/\/www.butterflychildamothersjourney.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Butterfly Child<\/a>). Luckily National Rehab\/McKesson got involved in 2008 and things turned around for us, but after Health Care Reform was implemented, which I fully support (it means my son will never go without health insurance no matter how old he is and there will be no caps among other things&#8230; meaning they will not cancel our policy because taking care of Nicky is deemed &#8220;too expensive&#8221;), the insurance companies decided that, gosh, our CEOs can&#8217;t make millions anymore, we must do something to squeeze more money out of the sick.<\/p>\n<p>So, what do they do? Now all &#8220;medical equipment&#8221;, which includes G-tube supplies, bandages, wheelchairs etc, come with a whopping 30% co-pay. We are extremely lucky that McKesson, who covers the bandages waves the co-pay for EB families (since it would be in the $thousands every single month-and I am far from exaggerating), but that&#8217;s not the case for the g-tube supplies. For me to receive the usual monthly shipment of the items NECESSARY to keep Nicky alive, my co-pay amount is close to $300 a month.<\/p>\n<p>I did the math&#8230; if $300 is the 30% co-pay, this means that the total cost of the monthly shipment of 30 g-tube bags, 5 extensions and Nutren 2.0 totals $1,000.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s HOGWASH!<\/p>\n<p>If I go on Amazon.com and purchase the Nutren and the supplies outright, it will cost me as much\u00a0as my co-pay, a little under $300.<\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s the deal?<\/p>\n<p>How can the supplier get away with making an <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">extra<\/span> $700 profit<\/strong><\/span> over my son&#8217;s needed things?<\/p>\n<p>I asked them this over the phone. They are a SUPPLIER. This means they buy things in BULK and should be able to offer CHEAPER prices to their customers, not higher, right?<br \/>\nTo this she replied: &#8220;Sure, that&#8217;s how it works for EVERY OTHER business, but not the medical business&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s crystal clear to me that the PROFITS when it comes to Health Care are outrageous and disgusting.<\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s the point of me even getting these items through the supplier if I can get them from Amazon cheaper? Why give them this outrageous profit? Of course I can&#8217;t afford the $300 to begin with, so I have to send a ton of emails a month to places that trade supplies etc. Please, make my life harder than it already is, won&#8217;t you? Thanks so much. To say I am frustrated and angry is the understatement of the year.<\/p>\n<p>Insurance Companies + Suppliers = <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Greed<\/span> Galore<\/p>\n<p>Honestly&#8230; I am tired of it all. I am tired of fighting. I&#8217;ve been fighting with the insurance companies now for almost 19 years. I don&#8217;t see a light at the end of the tunnel. All I see is darkness.<\/p>\n<p>If anyone has any solutions, please let me know. And&#8230; yes, if I could move to Italy right now, I would.<\/p>\n<p>Love and Light,<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.silviaskingdom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Animation296_silvia.gif\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-1420\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.silviaskingdom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Animation296_silvia.gif\" alt=\"Animation296_silvia\" width=\"205\" height=\"195\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>P.S. 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