{"id":1551,"date":"2015-10-27T18:27:00","date_gmt":"2015-10-27T18:27:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.silviaskingdom.com\/?p=1551"},"modified":"2017-09-30T13:41:20","modified_gmt":"2017-09-30T20:41:20","slug":"what-does-it-mean-to-have-a-child-with-rdeb","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.silviaskingdom.com\/?p=1551","title":{"rendered":"What Does It Mean To Have A Child With RDEB?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-1552\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.silviaskingdom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/http-www.pixteller.com-pdata-t-l-166121.jpg\" alt=\"http---www.pixteller.com-pdata-t-l-166121\" width=\"300\" height=\"385\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.silviaskingdom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/http-www.pixteller.com-pdata-t-l-166121.jpg 605w, https:\/\/blog.silviaskingdom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/http-www.pixteller.com-pdata-t-l-166121-234x300.jpg 234w, https:\/\/blog.silviaskingdom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/http-www.pixteller.com-pdata-t-l-166121-311x400.jpg 311w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>Since this is &#8220;EB Awareness Week&#8221; (#EBawarenessweek) I wanted to write a short blog about what is like to have a child with Recessive Dystrophic Epidermolysis Bullosa.<\/p>\n<p>For me, it means having to inspect every inch of my son&#8217;s skin every night. It means taking a sterile needle to lance every new blister and drain them so they don&#8217;t get any larger. It means deciding how to bandage each wound, because they all need different ointments and bandages depending on how far along in the healing process they are.<\/p>\n<p>It means having a house full of mass quantities of bandages and creams, all of which will only last a month.<\/p>\n<p>It means having to help my son get from point A to point B in the house as he cannot walk. Because he&#8217;s too heavy, I cannot carry him, and even if I did, the pressure from my hands would hurt him.<\/p>\n<p>It means having a son that is not and can never be independent.<\/p>\n<p>It means knowing his condition only gets worse with age and how painful it is to see photos from when he was smaller and better.<\/p>\n<p>It means needing to feed him through the g-tube every single night as he cannot eat normally. He never could. He does not know what pizza or a hamburger tastes like and he never will.<\/p>\n<p>It means that insurance companies can suck us dry, as if having a child in pain every day qualifies us to have all sorts of cash available for never ending co-pays, some of which (for the g-tube, for example) run in the hundreds every month.<\/p>\n<p>It means having to give him pain medication every few hours, as he&#8217;s always in pain. ALWAYS.<\/p>\n<p>It means I can only give him gentle hugs and kisses. It means I can&#8217;t hold his hand.<\/p>\n<p>It means I have learned to ignore the mean stares and the ignorant comments.<\/p>\n<p>It means I now know what truly unconditional love is.<\/p>\n<p>It means I know how\u00a0to smile through tears and adversity because I see it in my son every day.<\/p>\n<p>It means I now know what true strength is. Nicky has shown me.<\/p>\n<p>It means I have my personal hero that can laugh when most others would cry.<\/p>\n<p>EB is considered an orphan disorder because so little is known about it. Please help us raise awareness and share this post TODAY!<\/p>\n<p>Love &amp; Light,<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.silviaskingdom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/moongirl_silvia.gif\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-1542\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.silviaskingdom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/moongirl_silvia.gif\" alt=\"moongirl_silvia\" width=\"210\" height=\"139\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"fb-background-color\">\n\t\t\t  <div \n\t\t\t  \tclass = \"fb-comments\" \n\t\t\t  \tdata-href = \"https:\/\/blog.silviaskingdom.com\/?p=1551\"\n\t\t\t  \tdata-numposts = \"20\"\n\t\t\t  \tdata-lazy = \"true\"\n\t\t\t\tdata-colorscheme = \"light\"\n\t\t\t\tdata-order-by = \"reverse_time\"\n\t\t\t\tdata-mobile=true>\n\t\t\t  <\/div><\/div>\n\t\t  <style>\n\t\t    .fb-background-color {\n\t\t\t\tbackground: #ffffff !important;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t.fb_iframe_widget_fluid_desktop iframe {\n\t\t\t    width: 100% !important;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t  <\/style>\n\t\t  ","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Since this is &ldquo;EB Awareness Week&rdquo; (#EBawarenessweek) I wanted to write a short blog about what is like to have a child with Recessive Dystrophic Epidermolysis Bullosa. 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