{"id":2395,"date":"2017-01-17T11:26:51","date_gmt":"2017-01-17T19:26:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.silviaskingdom.com\/?p=2395"},"modified":"2017-01-17T11:26:51","modified_gmt":"2017-01-17T19:26:51","slug":"creating-joy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.silviaskingdom.com\/?p=2395","title":{"rendered":"Creating Joy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This past holiday season I was in a truly morose mood, but just this past week I talked to someone that gave me a heads up&#8230; how we are the creators of our own joy. &#8220;You are the one that has to create joy in your life&#8221; he said, and then followed them with examples&#8230; trips, events and the like.<\/p>\n<p>I had to think about that for a moment, a day, a week.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve always been the one that creates &#8220;moments&#8221; in my family&#8217;s life, but it&#8217;s difficult to think of &#8220;fun&#8221; things to do with my son.\u00a0He never wants to go anywhere because it&#8217;s so hard or it&#8217;s too hot and\u00a0It&#8217;s difficult to create moments when the only thing that comes to mind is an amusement park, or a museum or a national park, which means lots of walking, traveling great distances and many transfers which NIcky hates. Besides,\u00a0Nicky does not have much fun in these places. Nicky&#8217;s not into sports and he hates loud music, so a sport or concert is out of the question. Yes, I can take him to the movies every now and again, but it has to be a movie he wants to see&#8230; luckily there is one coming up that both Nicky &amp; Connor are eager to see, called &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.adogspurposemovie.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">A Dog&#8217;s Purpose<\/a>&#8220;, so we&#8217;ll go see that for sure. Besides that I was at a loss.<\/p>\n<p>This weekend, however, we were fortunate enough to attend a fundraiser called ROCK4EB for the EBMRF (Epidermolysis Bullosa Medical Research Foundation <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ebkids.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">ebkids.org<\/a>) and I was reminded how life can be joyous if only we think outside of the box. Whoever thought in a million years I would meet Brad Pitt? Not me. Never in my wildest dreams. I shook his hand and thanked him for supporting research for a cure and he took my hand in both of his and made my day, my month, my year, my decade.<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"boxer\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.silviaskingdom.com\/?attachment_id=2396\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-2396\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2396\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.silviaskingdom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/15937284_10154992168712174_2917873446254123159_o.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Nicky was so excited to be treated with such love and respect by these famous people that I told him we live close enough to Hollywood to attend taping of TV shows. Not a long drive, free tickets and wheelchair access with\u00a0a fun time to be had. I already requested tickets to see Ellen, America&#8217;s Got Talent &amp; others (fingers crossed we get in!) and we are all set to go see a taping of &#8220;Young &amp; Hungry&#8221; which is a show Nicky loves on January 27th. Nicky is excited and looking forward to it. I am keeping an eye out for other shows as well, picking shows Nicky enjoys.<\/p>\n<p>What else can I do to make Nicky&#8217;s life more joyous? 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