To Bandage or NOT to Bandage. That is the Question.

If there was one thing I’ve been criticized endlessly for, and for which I’ve stood my ground over and over again, is my need to bandage Nicky. I wrote extensively about it in my book (Butterfly Child), but I feel the need to make my feelings more “public”, so to speak, because, once again, I was attacked for it, merciless. I am not sure why people I do not know, who very obviously (having met them or seen their pics) are dealing with a different subtype or subform of EB feel the need to go to the extent of calling me a “bad”, “horrific” or a “crazy mother” and why they feel the need to “tell me what to do”, asRead More

Apples & Oranges

I feel the need to vent this morning, so thank you for letting me do that! OK, here goes. A few months ago I posted a blog on the EB Info World website about the crazy notion that Every EB patient is different. I was inspired to write that blog when several well meaning young adults with the same form of EB my son has just could not understand why Nicky could not walk, why he was bandaged so much, and why his skin was different than theirs, even with the same diagnosis. That blog explained my experiences and understanding of how different each patient truly is. Dismissing the fact that every EB patient is different and throwingRead More

Questions Answered

Ever since the photographer started taking photos of Nicky for her/our photo-documentary about living with EB, a lot of questions about his health have surfaced-I will try to answer them here to the best of my ability. 1. Is his condition considered ‘lethal’. Nicky was diagnosed at birth with Epidermolysis Bullosa, a biopsy was then taken and the result was a diagnose of his sub-type, which is ‘Recessive Dystrophic’. Of the currently known types of EB, only two are considered lethal per se: Junctional (Herlitz form) is deadly to the newborn and young. It involves the insides; small intestines, gallbladder, urethra and kidneys along with the nasal, oral, pharynx, esophagus, etc…  These babies commonly pass away within a fewRead More