It’s not Political Stuff, it’s Human Being Stuff

Nowadays, everytime I turn around, I hear something on the news on how the life of my child, once again, is an afterthought. The latest one is how the new tax plan passed unanimously by the GOP until the last minute didn’t have the ability to deduct medical expenses. Maybe, for most people, being able to deduct medical expenses is not an issue whatsoever, but I am glad that pressure from the disability community got them to open their eyes. The fight is not over, as there are other things at stake. By reducing revenue by at least $1.5 trillion and increasing the deficit, the “Tax Cuts and Jobs Act” increases the pressure to cut Social Security &Read More

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For many years to come we survived on donated bandages or, worse, washed and re-used bandages. It’s heartbreaking for everyone to see my son not only suffering but deteriorating before our very eyes.  The death of my child changed me in ways I cannot ever explain nor express the monumental importance of. When you hear a bereaved mom mention the name of their child in heaven, just listen. I will continue to fight, just as all parents on this journey do. We will fight on all levels, with all the love we can muster, because our children deserve our best. Sometimes I wonder if my tiredness is not strictly physical but mental as well. Can anyone feel tiredRead More

Fighting EB Every Day is our “Normal”

As Nicky’s 20th Birthday came and went, I am reminded of so many moments in his life where things were dicey. When I really thought he wasn’t going to make it to his 8th birthday, let alone reach his twenties. When he was 5 years old, in fact, he took a bad fall, which denuded both his legs of skin from his knee to the ankle. His knees and ankles were already non-healing areas by then. After 2 years of trying everything under the sun to get his legs to heal, I was at my wit’s end. Not only his health was spiraling out of control as his infections were at an all time high, his spirits wereRead More