August 1998 – When we spent several months in Italy in 1998 so that my parents could help me take care of Nicky, I had the opportunity to have my little guy spend quality time with my Nonna Rina, which is Nicky’s great-grandma (BisNonna). We would go visit her often and she would always ask for kisses. It was so sweet. I miss her dearly, but I know she had a long life, passing away only a couple of monthsRead More →

As parents, we always want to encourage our children to be able to stand up for themselves. Anytime I feel I may not be doing a good job at this considering how much I advocate for my Nicky, all I have to do is look at my healthy son, now 14 years old. He ROCKS! He’s totally willing and able to stand up for himself. He often asks me how to deal with so-and-so and comes home from school tellingRead More →

I pride myself in being even-keeled. Very little truly upsets me anymore. Looking at the bright side? That’s me. I let a LOT of things go. Ask my husband! He is often more upset about stuff than I am, even when the problem is mine. I tell him to chillax. My issue though is that sometimes I refuse to let things or people upset me for so long that when the proverbial drop makes the glass overflow, I tend toRead More →

For many years to come we survived on donated bandages or, worse, washed and re-used bandages. It’s heartbreaking for everyone to see my son not only suffering but deteriorating before our very eyes.  The death of my child changed me in ways I cannot ever explain nor express the monumental importance of. When you hear a bereaved mom mention the name of their child in heaven, just listen. I will continue to fight, just as all parents on this journeyRead More →

Society as a whole is filled with nice people. I met a ton of these kind people, whose heart is filled with kindness and generosity. But I don’t live in a bubble. I know some people are cruel. I know there is hate in this world. I know there is racism, bigotry, prejudice, misogyny, homophobia and discrimination. And while I encountered this cruelty in my life before my children were born-and stillborn, I just didn’t know how real it was untilRead More →

January 2008 – Nicky showing his flexibility! This is one of the few things he can do with his body. He may not be able to walk or move much, so it’s always fun for me to see this fun/crazy side of him. In this picture Nicky was 12 and he hasn’t really changed much at all, he truly looks the same!!! That smile and the ability to not think about his condition and concentrate on doing what he canRead More →

Nicky was born on November 25th, 1996 and was diagnosed with Recessive Dystrophic Epidermolysis Bullosa (RDEB). EB is a rare genetic skin disorder, his body does not produce a vital protein that glues the layers of his skin together, hence the slightest friction causes painful blisters and wounds. His body has to be covered with special wound products and bandages to allow his wounds to heal and protect his skin from further damage. There is no treatment or cure atRead More →

This was an important week for Epidermolysis Bullosa Awareness. An article about a boy in Germany that was treated with skin grafts from Dr. De Luca in Italy is making the rounds around the world. (Here’s the link for the CNN article). The original research article that was published on Wednesday (the link is here) explains how it was all done. It’s complicated stuff, but here’s a quote from the CNN article that explains how it works: To obtain theRead More →